Mexico: Proper Etiquette

No matter where your travel destination may take you, make sure you not only do research on the fun activities, the food and the lodging, but also research etiquette and proper customs of the country. Taking note of these cultural elements may be the thing that keeps you out of a sticky situation.

Many cultures react differently to the smallest of gestures. You might be surprised to know that giving a Mexican person red flowers is offensive as it is a symbol that has a negative connotation. Below are some other etiquette rules that range from gift giving etiquette to dining etiquette.

Should you ever have the honor of dining at a Mexicans house, there are a few table and dining manners that should be followed.
• Arrive at least 30 minutes late. Arriving on time or early is considered inappropriate.(check with someone else attending the same function to see if you should arrive even LATER.)
• Do not sit down until you are invited and told where to sit.
• Start eating only after the hostess has started unless otherwise indicated.

If you are invited into a Mexican’s home, remember, it is customary to bring a gift such as flowers or candy. Not forgetting the negative connotation that red flowers have in Mexican culture, marigolds have the same effect. Marigolds symbolize death and therefore are not a proper gift for a Mexican. However, white flowers are considered uplifting and are an acceptable flower to give as a gift. Additionally, should you receive a gift from a Mexican, it should be opened right away and your reaction should be one of enthusiasm.

When you meet a Mexican for the first time, unless told otherwise, do not address them by their first name. It is tradition to be invited to use the first name as a greeting. Also, women typically greet each other by patting each other on the right shoulder while men typically use a hand shake or a hug if they know someone well.

These simple guidelines can help show Mexican friends your understanding of their culture and show them and others the effort you are making to participate in their traditions. Keep in mind that in Mexico, just as in all cultures, there is not one set of defined rules. You will find that each household will be slightly different and may hold some traditions closer than others. Mexicans are very friendly by nature, so don't worry if you arrive "early" or shake a hand instead of pat a shoulder. Your manners will be forgiven and many will be honored that you choose to spend your time with them.

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